How to Achieve True Happiness
Have you ever stopped to think of who decides on your happiness
life in the world? Is
happiness God made or chance? Can a person create his happiness
life? You and you alone are in control of your life direction
you can drive your self to true happiness or to rags! But
in order to be happy, one needs to concentrate on happy thoughts.
People always ignore the compliments paid to them by others,
yet dwelling on unkind words for weeks. They tend to remember
compliments for only few minutes or so, but do not forget
insult for years. By so doing, you become garbage collector
who carries around trash thrown long years ago. You will have
to suffer the consequences if you ever allow your mind to
be occupied by bad experience.
Remember, you being in control of your own mind (heart),
you
should make happiness and joy the center of your world. These
are always within you; all you have to do is to be sure you
are
connected with this place inside you. Then build your life
around joy. When you are triumphant, you can be creative because
you become open to new Ideas.
For those who were thinking that they could not create their
happiness and had given up stresses, I console them and tell
them that all is not lost; they still have time to have renovate
happiness and be successful if they comply with the following
gateways.
*RELAXATION: This is very important for joy and peak performance.
As you relax, your metabolism comes into balance. You say
yes for the defeat and start afresh, and by so doing you become
laid back and happy.
*CRITICISM: This is a useless act, accomplishes not any positive
results. Do not do it to yourself or others. Thinking negatively
about your self-challenger or other people is the greatest
cause of limitations in our lives. Never moan, groan and grouch
to any one who will only listen, but do to a person who can
do something. Complaining to irrelevant person will only add
to your stress.
*NEGATIVE THOUGHTS: This kill, like HIV/AIDS, negative thinking
is a killer; it affects the mind, body and emotions. Your
thoughts create your physical reality. If you don't get rid
of negative thoughts, expect negative results such as withholding,
dislike, poverty, poor image, unhappiness and misery.
*EDUCATION: This like the ocean, it has no end. Educate yourself
and be armed with
knowledge. Learning is lifelong experience; get it from older
people or those who have succeeded and ahead in the game of
life. Read books, newspapers, watch TV, the Internet etc.
You still have time for this since it's the key to good life.
*CARING ONESELF: Love yourself and take care of your body;
you live once and for good! Make sure you care for your self
if you want to live a long and fulfilling life. It is your
own task; no one else can do it for you mind your diet, hygiene
and exercise for your physical and mental fitness. Feel and
look good by working on your body. Laugh so as to make all
kinds of wonderful things happen to benefit your body and
mind. Get yourself at ease and be relaxed; the more relaxed
the less pain you feel.
*CREATIVITY: Life itself is creation, so this is the best
time for you to create whatever creative nature you instead
for. Work hard and be contented with your work. Build your
family by working hard. Choose a paying and legal carrier,
enjoy your work and make sure you are not enslaving your self
for working for the sake of money.
*COMPLIMENTS: Pay full attention to the people with huge
egos. They always have strong desire for recognition; yet
have little concern for those around. They do not give compliments
but thrive for! You should realize that it's healthy to acknowledge
a work well alone. Have a self-respect and integrity and keep
your word. Cure all kinds of disease affecting your happiness
and harvest best results such as love, caring, good health
and success in you life. This relies on your self-ACT NOW.
